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I’m 50 years old. Why do I still struggle with the need to be liked?

Published 18 August 2026, 5:00pm

An over-investment in people-pleasing can be emotionally costly. Here’s how I’m training myself to be OK with letting people down A few months ago, my 10-year-old daughter and I went to our neighborhood cafe.

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